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July 13, 2008

Open House: Brain Power Central

Manager Mom wanted to expand on Mrs. G's Heart of the House post with a look at where we do our thinking and working at home. We don't have a home office at our house--that's by design. Even though we have a big house, I still like to live like we did when we had a small house; everyone together as much as possible. That's why the kids don't have TV's in their bedrooms. With three laptops and a desktop, the great room is often one big office/social networking space.

My "thinking work" consists of schoolwork toward my teaching credential and blogging. Both activities require the computer. I've had a laptop for about 18 months and I honestly don't know how I lived without it. The laptop's portability means I have the choice of two places to work.

My preferred place is here, where I can be in the middle of the action.

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When I need a little more quiet, I head upstairs.

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June 28, 2008

A Note About The House Tour

There were comments made (yes, I'm talking to you Gary) that my house looks a bit too tidy. You know I'm all about the keeping it real--remember that one time I took a picture of my dining room table without polishing it first?Anyway, yes, the photos on the house tour do reflect the way my house looks 99% of the time. I admire some of you and your homey clutter. Really, I do. I have this allergy problem though. You know how some people break out in hives when exposed to cats? I break out in bitch when exposed to clutter. Sad, but true. I do allow my children to keep their rooms as they wish as long as the doors are kept closed, so my neuroses is somewhat controlled and you don't need to feel too sorry for my family.

Now keep reading for the real Saturday post!

June 27, 2008

Realtor Caravan: Mrs. G's Open House

Mrs. G has put out a call to her legions of loyal readers--share the heart of your house with me. What  a grand idea. In fact, most of my (Almost) Wordless Wednesdays have featured things I love in my house, many of them inherited from my mother.

I have always taken my job as a "homemaker" seriously, and I love the home I've created for my family. Everything has been done on a budget, and eclectic is definitely my decorating scheme. Of course it's a work in progress. It's definitely a labor of love.

We began our house search with a list of our priorities. I found a house that fulfilled everything on the list that was non-house related (cul-de-sac, canyon location, walking distance to swim club/grocery store, specific school we desired). The one thing that wasn't that great was the actual house. Ever the visionary, I realized the house is the only thing on the list you can change.

And change we did. Over the course of 2 major remodels we took an 1100 square foot house on pie-shaped cul-de-sac lot to 2600 square feet. It was easy-peasy. Actually, it was a nightmare that I've conveniently blocked. You know how childbirth wasn't that painful in retrospect? It's a lot like that.

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                Now for the tour . . . Let's step into the foyer.

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Like Mary Alice, this dresser is where I store my table linens. Also, thank you cards and art supplies.

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              Can you tell I'm into displaying my family photos?

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Formal living room what? How about we put a pool table in there instead? Did I mention that I love natural light. Window coverings why?

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The kitchen/great room is truly my vision. If I'm in the kitchen, I'm still in the thick of things. I have the perfect work triangle.

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Please, sit at the bar and have a glass of wine while I finish dinner.

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Yes, it's a big couch. Then again, we are a large (in quantity, not necessarily bulk) family!

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          Formal dining room, why? Let's just eat in the great room!

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    Separate office/computer room? No, then we wouldn't be together!

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Spend a fortune on bookcases? Not after I found these on clearance for $10.00 each. Yeah, baby--10 bucks apiece! On my wish list? New wooden frames for all my photos, adding more, and rehanging them. What's stopping me? A little thing called sending 3 more kids to college in the next 4 years, starting NOW.

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To me a house just wouldn't be a home without an animal or two (or four or five if you want to include the cats and the snake).

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                       Controlled chaos--the "staging area."

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                                               Back hallway

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                                     Area rug/floor sampler

Thanks for stopping by. I can't wait to see your place! Thanks again to Mrs. G for hosting, isn't she the best?

June 26, 2008

A Must Read For . . . Everyone Who Has Or Works With Kids

I am an information junkie. Newspapers, magazines, books, on-line magazines--I read them all. I totally disavow all t.v news programming, but that's another post. I'm also a natural researcher. Give me a problem or dilemma and I'll get you twice the information that you needed. Did I mention that I totally pink puffy heart Google and IMDB?! Anyway . . .

Whenever I've had a problem or concern or area of interest related to child-rearing, I read a book. And, boy, have I read a lot of books. I can tell you how to deal with your Difficult Child, your Spirited Child, and how to Raise A Fine Young Man.  I know how to Revive Ophelia and all about Queen Bees and Wannabees as well as having read pretty much every book for parents or children on Tourette Syndrome. So when Jenn says this is one of THE BEST and MOST PRACTICAL AND HELPFUL parenting books she's ever read, you might want to listen.

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I think most of the people I know in the blogosphere live in similar neighborhoods to mine, and we are the people Rosalind Wiseman is writing for. The parents with enough time and money to make our kids our number one priority--for good and for ill. And if I didn't love this book already I surely did on page 313 when she says (envision me in my sweltering bedroom reading this and mentally jumping up and down screaming "Yes!" because it was too hot to actually move), "Here's what I think stands the greater chance of ruining your child's future: never punishing him or her in a way that really hits home."

The subtitle on the book is actually a little misleading--Ms. Wiseman waits until the inside to point out that you might be the difficult parent in your child's life. She uses her pinpoint accuracy and easy-to-grasp sociological and psychological insights to describe various parenting styles that make you squirm a little with introspection.

It wasn't difficult to recognize myself in the description of the "Proud-to-be-a-pain Mom" and there's no doubt that Mr. Fix-it is an "Invisible Dad" (not as bad as it sounds: "They're good, well-meaning parents who try to attend all the school functions and never say a word . . . They can't identify with the other parents asking question after question . . .").

And she nailed it when she says of me and my compadres, "The truth is, Proud-to-be-a-Pain Mom enjoys her role as gladiator. And secretly, her kids often enjoy it, too. Someone's got to do the dirty work." Can I get an amen, sister?!

This book provides a practical guide to virtually every situation you might encounter as you raise your children in a conscientious and loving may. Your interactions with teachers, coaches, principals, other parents and your own children WILL be positively effected by having read this book.

She includes advice on birthday parties, sports, cliques (adults' and children's), partying, schooling choices, college applications and more.

I referenced this earlier, but it cannot be emphasized enough, Rosalind Wiseman not only works in our communities, she's raising children in one just like yours. Communities where everyone starts out with the best intentions, but where parents sometimes get lost along the way. Where competition is king and it's easy to lose sight of your values in the quest of wanting the best for your child.

If the copy I was reading was mine, I would be doing a giveaway. Alas, it's borrowed (I cannot wait for the book group discussion on this), so you're on your own. If you have read this book or you end up reading it, please let me know what you think. While this may sound like I'm getting paid or am a personal friend of Rosalind Wiseman's, neither is true. I do actually have a paid gig from MotherTalk on July 2nd, so if you're into book reviews please stop back then.

June 25, 2008

Mosaic Meme

Jennifer H. at Thursday Drive told me to do this, so I did. (There was the fact that I loved hers, too). We even ended up with a matching picture--It's that whole every other girl in a 15 year time span being named Jennifer thing! Can you guess what my favorite color is?

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1. ~Ocean Playground~, 2. Mid-Week Treat #5, 3. MMHS., 4. Cobalt-blue ocean, 5. 4978-John Cusack, 6. Dom Perignon, 7. extraordinary symbols, 8. fondue, 9. Excelsior, 10. Latest Family Portrait, 11. Gliding George, 12. juggling life

Here’s how it works . . .

  • Answer each of the questions below.
  • Surf over to Flickr (set up an account if you don’t have one–it’s quick and easy) and type your answers (one at a time) into the search bar.
  • From the choice of pictures shown only on the front page, click on the one that moves you.
  • Once the page with your picture opens, copy the URL.
  • Surf over to the Mosaic Maker, set up your mosaic, and paste your URLs.
  • Click “Create!”

The Questions:

  1. What is your first name?
  2. What is your favorite food?
  3. What high school did you attend?
  4. What is your favorite color?
  5. Who is your celebrity crush?
  6. What is your favorite drink?
  7. Where would you go on your dream vacation?
  8. What is your favorite dessert?
  9. What do you want to be when you grow up?
  10. What do you love most in life?
  11. Choose one word to describe you?
  12. Your Flickr name? (I had to substitute for this one, since Flickr didn’t recognize my account name).

June 24, 2008

Playing Along With A Side Of My Personal Take On It

I read a lot of blogs (83 on my reader, plus all the links I follow; somebody stop me!) and a universal sentiment among Mommy Bloggers (sorry if the term offends you, I'm okay with it) is GUILT. WAHM's, WOHM's, SAHM's . . . everyone seems to have a case of the guilts and/or low self-esteem.

I really don't ever feel guilty. I think I'm a good mom, a good wife, a good person. I figure that I do my best and that your best is the most you can do. I know I'm not perfect, but I know nobody else is either, so I'm pretty sure that's how the system works.

How did I get to be this way? I have no idea. I didn't get it from my mother who was a guilt-ridden as they come. Honestly, I can't say that I had any role models in the "no guilt" department. Maybe this is one of those nature/nurture things. My dad doesn't feel guilt either and he abandoned a couple of families!

So when I happened upon this post at Party of 6, read her list and followed her links back, I thought "no problem." In fact, I'm going to see how quickly can I do it.

50 Things I Like About Myself

1. I am smart.

2. I am funny.

3. I am pretty (I know it's shallow, but there you have it).

4. I  am a good mother.

5. I am a good wife.

6. I am a good aunt, sister, sister-in-law (you get the picture).

7. I am a dedicated student.

8. I am a gifted teacher.

9. I am an excellent cook.

10. I am a loyal, steadfast and fun friend.

11. I dress well.

12. I have made my house a warm and inviting environment through decorating (on a budget).

13. I stay on top of my laundry like nobody's business.

14. I am a good writer.

15. I challenged myself to write every day when I started this blog and I've done it.

16. I am a very fast reader.

17. I am frugal, but not cheap.

18. I am not materialistic (which is not to say I don't like nice things).

19. I am highly principled and I do not sell out (there are a couple of good stories attached to this).

20. When I want something I am dogged in my pursuit of it.

21. Even though I would like to be thinner, I have never let my weight (up or down) define me as a person.

22. I have not succumbed to my family legacy of addiction (I acknowledge this may be genetic luck on my part).

23. I am willing to try new things.

24. I am fun at a party--sometimes a little fun and sometimes lampshade on the head fun.

25. I think on my feet really well.

26. I have never been embarrassed to ask a question.

27. I always champion the underdog.

28. I have instilled the personality trait of empathy in all my children.

29. I am unabashedly liberal (and I think that's a good thing).

30. I bake kick-ass birthday and special occasion cakes.

31. I am good at math.

32. I would never stand by and watch someone be hurt or humiliated without interfering. Even if I had doubts about my personal safety.

33. I made sure my mother got her wish to die at home in her own bed.

34. I chose wisely when I picked my husband.

35. I am willing to admit that I love sappy Lifetime movies (even if that makes you judge me).

36. I am self-confident.

37. I am efficient.

38. I can be a fancy-pants Martha Stewart when I want to be, but I don't feel obligated to.

39. I've gotten straight A's for 60 units while still taking great care of my family.

40. I've taught a bunch of kids (not just my own) to swim in the ocean and ride bikes.

41. I can treat myself and never doubt that I'm worth it.

42. I once tore out my entire backyard and replanted it (with the help of a day laborer for the really big stuff) while my husband was out of the country for 2 months. I could never do it today, but I did it then.

43. I don't whine, I do what needs to be done.

44. I never thought having 4 kids was exceptionally hard work. (I'm not judging you if you do, I'm just saying it wasn't for me).

45. I'm open-minded.

46. The most important thing for me in regards to my kids is that they have happy lives. That means I want them to go to the college or do the the job they want to have, not the job I think they should have. Unless they want to be drug dealers or something.

47. I employ good grammar and punctuation. Kalynne Pudner and I might have a little disagreement about the evolution of whether or not it is appropriate to end a sentence with a preposition. I am of the (newer) school of thought that it is preferable to end a sentence with a preposition rather than to reword the sentence so that it sounds awkward, but doesn't end with a preposition.

48. I can text better than most 44 year old women.

49. I don't have angst over getting older. Never have. Which is not to say that it might not kick in at some point.

50. It only took me 14 minutes to come up with 50 things I like about myself (well, technically I guess it was 49 things).

I HOPE YOU THINK ABOUT PLAYING--THIS IS A GREAT EXERCISE.

May 12, 2008

Spreading the Love (and the Food) . . .

The other day I received this in the mail.

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Inside was a lovely card

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and a beautifully wrapped package

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containing this book.

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This package made was sent from the U.K. by Hen at Diary of Domestic Hiss. I was the lucky winner of her contest to send this book around the world. So this coming weekend I shall be cooking a meal from this book, sharing it with friends, and sending it on its whirlwind tour. Of course, this means I have to find the next person to send it to. If you're interested, leave me a comment on this post. I make no promises as to how I'll pick a winner; I'll make the decision after a wonderful meal, a delicious dessert, and 2 or 3 glasses of wine!

P.S. Thanks Hen--It was delish!

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April 21, 2008

Cool Book Meme

Deb at San Diego Momma tagged me with a very cool meme; a meme that speaks directly to my book-lovin' soul. Like Deb did, I'm going to give you some background on me and books first. 'Cause I am all about the back story!

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I can't remember a time when I didn't love books. My first memories are of the Little Golden Books you could buy at the grocery store. My mom may have been a single mother on welfare who bought our clothes at the Goodwill, but she always seemed to be able to swing a book purchase.

When I was in elementary school I was a latchkey kid. The library was on the way home from school--I was allowed to be at home or at the library until my mom got home from work. I was usually at the library. I wasn't very good about writing my book reports in a timely manner--I was too busy reading books.

My mom used to punish my sister and I both by taking our books away. I used to hide books under the bathroom sink on housecleaning day so I could take extended breaks. Some of the best times I can remember as a family (mom, stepdad, sister, me) were when we all curled up on the (burnt orange) sectional in front of a roaring fire, absorbed in our own books. My stepsisters still tease me about my habit of reading in the car at night. I'd read by the light of the streetlights. It had a rhythm to it--bright, dim, lose the light completely for a second, bright, dim, lose the the light completely . . . Now I wonder why nobody gave me a flashlight!

When my mom died several years ago I didn't realize how depressed I was. She died on May 1 and after the initial flurry of activity I dove into my books. It wasn't until the kids went back to school after Labor Day that I realized that a 300-400 page a day book habit might actually be a sign of something deeper.

Like the rest of you I don't read as many books now that I blog. Combine that with the reading I do for school and my pleasure book reading is down to about 2-3 novels a month. But, I am never, ever without a book.

And now for the meme . . .

1. List three books you’ve always meant to read, but haven’t gotten around to reading.

2. Share the two books that changed your life.

3. Recommend the one book you’ve been talking about since the very first day you’ve read it.

1) Three books I've meant to read:

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Reading Lolita in Tehran by Azar Nafisi: I just cannot get into it. It seems like it would be right up my alley, but no. I don't think I'm alone here--I believe my entire book group abandoned it.

One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez: I have tried valiantly. I believe I've made it about 1/3 of the way through the book. It should be a book I like, but again, no. I keep it around just so I can feel guilty every time I look at it.

Things Fill Apart by Chinua Achebe: I was so bored. I'm sure it is life-altering, but I'd have to be able to get through it first. Again, total guilt.

2) Two books that changed my life:

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The Good Earth by Pearl S. Buck: I believe I first read this when I was 13. Why did this book change my life? It opened my eyes to the rest of the world in a very real way. It is so well-written and absorbing that it was a totally transformative experience.

Don't Sweat the Small Stuff (and it's all small stuff) by Richard Carlson: I am so totally not a self-help book person. I don't even know what moved me to read this book. I do know that the following changed my life. The author says to ask yourself "Would I rather be right or would I rather be happy?" What a novel concept. Of course I would rather be right. And while I was being right I'd be happy to bludgeon anyone in the vicinity with my rightness. So I started practicing letting other people be right (even when they really weren't), and I became a much happier person.

3) The book I've been talking about since the very first day I read it:

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The Time-Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger: This book just captivated me. I don't normally like anything that smacks of science-fiction, but this book intrigued me from the first page. I recommend it to everyone I talk books with. This falls into the category of a you either love it or you hate it book. You should definitely try it.

As always, If I tag you and you don't feel like playing my feelings won't be hurt. Because he's a brand-new find (and a friend of Bossy's) and I know he loves books, I'm tagging The Jason Show. Because a woman with as many books as she has in her house (and who displays them so artfully) will have some great responses, I'm tagging katydidnot. I'd love to hear some ideas from the other side of the pond, so my final tag is The Reluctant Blogger.

April 12, 2008

Saturday Memes

I was tagged twice this week--I guess I'm just not running fast enough!

The first meme is from Stephanie at Bad Mom. Her list is so funny I'm totally doubtful about my ability to live up to the standard she set, but what the hey!

5 Classes That Should Have Been Taught in School
  1. Reality 101 or Life Is Not An Episode Of Grey's Anatomy

  2. The Stages Of Aging And How To Adjust Your Clothing Choices Accordingly

  3. Life Is Not Going to Go Exactly According to Your Plan: Learning How To Deal

  4. Marriage 101: Taught by Mrs. G

  5. Basic Automobile Maintenance for Men and Women (or at least how to check and add oil so you don't blow a headgasket on your VW bug when you're 19 years old)

I'm going to tag a few of the funniest bloggers I know--we could all use a good laugh.

Tootsie Farklepants at Vintage Thirty

Melanie at Beanpaste

Suburban Correspondent at The More The Messier

I was also tagged by Maria Mommy of Four.

1. The rules of the game get posted at the beginning.
2. Each player answers the questions about themselves.
3. At the end of the post, the player tags 5 people and posts their name, then goes to their blogs and leaves them a comment, letting them know they've been tagged and asking them to read your blog.
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What I was doing 10 years ago:


Ten years ago my kids were 13, 8, 5, and 3. That would have meant 3 different schools. Oh yeah, we happened to be doing a major remodel of our house. By major I mean to say we had not kitchen for 2 months. Did I mention how old the kids were? We knew we were in it for the long haul when we didn't get divorced during the remodel.


Five Snacks I enjoy:
In a perfect, non weight-gaining world

1. Nachos with guacamole
2. Chocolate
3. Homemade chocolate chip cookies
4. Hummus and pita chips
5. Ruffles and onion dip

In the real world

1. Golden Spoon Peanut Butter Cup frozen yogurt
2. Trader Joe's vanilla bon bon (yes, just one)
3. Cherry tomatoes
4. Fresh pineapple
5. Popcorn


Things I would do if I were a billionaire:
1. I'd keep this house, but I would have lots of work done and get great new furniture.
2. New cars all around--family and friends. Hybrids for everyone.
3. Travel all over the world. Sometimes just my family, sometimes family and friends.
4. Buy a house in Mammoth. One of the really cool ones.
5. Fund inner-city charter schools that reflect my educational philosophies.
Five jobs that I have had:

1. Pharmacy technician
2. SAHM
3. Bank teller
4. Waitress
5. Moonlight bowling spotter


Three of my habits:
1. It must be said--Blogging
2. Wiping cupboards whenever I'm on the phone
3. Never, ever going to bed without the dishes done


Five place I have lived: (This is easy)
1. Venice Beach, California
2. Mazatatlan, Mexico (just for a few months when I was 5)
3. Santa Monica, CA
4..Mira Mesa (San Diego, CA)

5. Scripps Ranch (San Diego, CA): For about 32 of my 44 years

Five People I Want to Get to Know Better: (a nice way of saying TAG!) But don't feel obligated! Just do it if you want to.
1.Life In A Cone of Silence
2. Etc., Etc. Etc.
3. Thursday Drive

4.It's a Mad Madge World
5.Circus Kelli

April 02, 2008

Day 100!

I didn't do a 100th post because a couple of them were correction and addendum posts(before I used Live Writer), which I figure really shouldn't count. Because I always like to be on the up and up, I figured the unwritten rule book, which I've gleaned from other peoples blogs, meant 100 real posts. For me, that meant day 100. Which should be April 2, if my math is right. I cannot even believe I've only been doing this since Christmas Day 2007. And I have actual readers. I imagine that there are many people toiling away on their blogs after day 100 with a handful of friends and family reading them. But friends, I got lucky. Lucky in a big way.

I happened to be reading Derfwad Manor virtually as Mrs. G put out the word on the first Slow Cook Thursday. Never one to miss an opportunity, I composed and sent my Slow Cook Thursday post within the hour. I got the call-back before she'd even written the interview questions. I won the blog lotto--I was Mrs. G's first Slow Cook Thursday. The rest as they say, is history.

I also have to thank the lovely and intellectual Mary Alice from From The Frontlines who not only offered me early encouragement, she was my first commenter. Plus, she's a fellow "non-traditional" student with 3 teenagers at home, so she's my soul sister.

Okay, enough about the amazing, wonderful, blogger-to-whom-I-shall-be-eternally-grateful, Mrs. G.; on to me. In the grand tradition of the blogosphere, I give you 100 things about me on day 100 of Juggling Life. As an aside, if I thought I was juggling life before I started this blog, I was seriously deluded.

1. I was a natural blonde as a child; I'm still a blonde, it's just not natural.

2. I am an oldest child. Well, except for my dad's various love children, but I don't really know them so it doesn't count.

3. I was so painfully shy as a child that today I would probably be diagnosed with Social Anxiety Disorder today.

4. I had an epiphany at 14 that everyone else was just as terrified as me and that if I could be the one to make the first move they would be so happy they'd be my friend. I was right.

5. I got married at 23.

6. My husband and I started saving for retirement the day we got married.

7. I believe in having the best and most insurance you can afford.

8. I am a very strict parent.

9. But not as strict as I used to be.

10. I don't think I've ever been bored with my life.

11. I've never traveled out of North America, but I will someday.

12. The 80's were the party decade. I was in my late teens and 20's in the 80's. You do the math.

13. I was the biggest procrastinator in the world as a child.

14. I never procrastinate as an adult.

15. I never did my homework as a child.

16. I always do my homework now.

17. I'm terrified that my son will repeat my 18 year old mistake of thinking I was too smart to need to study in college just because I never had to do it in high school.

18. I have food issues.

19. I am a very good cook.

20. I am 44 and have lost half my birth family to cancer. That scares me.

21. I exercise 5 days a week. It hasn't made me thinner, but it does make me feel better.

22. The only time I've ever been depressed was when I had an adverse reaction to a common antibiotic. The depression lasted 5 days before the doctor figured out what the problem was. For the first time in my life I could relate to people who had thoughts of suicide. This incident left me with great empathy and respect for people who have to fight that fight.

23. My husband thinks I'm funny.

24. My kids are not convinced.

25. I am a loyal and true friend.

26. I am a problem-solver extraordinaire.

27. I am a good speller. I have a chalkboard in my brain on which I can write words. I didn't realize not everyone did not have that until Big Red (not a good speller) was in 3rd grade, and the teacher informed me he did not possess the brain chalkboard.

28. My favorite artist is Gustav Klimt.

29. I love quilts and quilting shows. Someday I will learn to quilt.

30. I like music but I'm not one of those people who cannot live without music.

31. I'm a huge fan of National Public Radio.

32. A.M. talk radio makes we want to drive my car into a brick wall.

33. I am fastidious about my oral health and have my teeth cleaned every 3 months.

34. I'm a neat freak, but not a germophobe. I totally think a little of the right kind of bacteria boosts your immune system.

35. I like to camp. Backpacking, not so much.

36. I count my blessings every night before I go to sleep.

37. When I was a little girl in Santa Monica, I was constantly mistaken for Tatum O'Neal. I ended up just giving autographs.

38. I love my blog--and probably your blog too!

39. I didn't used to be a big animal person, but Danger Boy changed me. Now I will always have a beagle.

40. I'm not much of an artist myself, but I am a good art teacher for children.

41. I can be crafty.

42. I'm pretty vain.

43. I would rather my hair be stylish than pretty.

44. If I wasn't going to be a teacher, I think I'd be a pretty good lawyer.

45. I'm personally conservative and socially liberal.

46. When my kids were younger, I took them swimming every single day from April through October.

47. I've never been able to be part of any organization and not end up with a leadership position of some sort.

48. I will never be the treasurer of any organization.

49. I have number dyslexia. Don't laugh, it's real. I once owed the IRS a whopping fine because I wrote them a check for $18.00 instead of $81.00.

50. I hate to sell things.

51. I played Field Hockey in high school.

52. My parents used to take books away from me as punishment.

53. I used to ride my bike by O.J. Simpson's Brentwood house on the way to Baskin-Robbins.

54. I hate string cheese. I love all other cheeses.

55. My favorite flower is Bearded Iris.

56. I clean whenever I talk on the phone.

57. I am not a morning person. I used to be a late-night person, but now I'm really more of a middle-of-the-day person.

58. When I cook I almost always cook extra and freeze the leftovers.

59. I tried to cut my boys' hair once. It was a disaster. Thank goodness they were too young to remember it.

60. If I come from a trip (to the mall or the East Coast) to a dirty house, my head will explode. It has happened.

61. I didn't do laundry for almost 5 years after I got married. I was in a car accident about 3 weeks after our wedding; my husband had to do the laundry and it just became a habit.

62. My husband and I are raising our kids to know the value of a dollar and to have a strong work-ethic.

63. I love to take photographs of children and sports.

64. I've worked outside the home for 5 to 10 hours a week for 17 years. I think it's been great to have that, and not just for the money.

65. I love jewelry. My husband loves to buy jewelry. It works.

66. I lived in Mazatlan for 6 months when I was five.

67. I have my mother's features and my father's coloring.

68. Even though I did not grow up knowing my biological father very much, I am shocked by the ways in which we are similar.

69. In the last year I lost a sister, but regained a relationship with a stepsister. That relationship means the world to me.

70. I am strong.

71. My drink is a Vodka Collins.

72. I read James Michener's Centennial in one weekend when I was sixteen. (The only other thing I did that weekend was go the bathroom a couple of times).

73. I drink a lot of water, I always have. Probably 80 oz. a day.

74. If I get up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom, I brush my teeth.

75. I've never tried to be a perfect parent. I'm content to be a good enough parent--I think it's better for me and for my kids.

76. I told my mom I was going all-night roller skating at Aquarius Rollerena every Saturday night of my senior year in high school. I've never been all night roller skating.

77. I check up on my teenagers. See above.

78. I've never had any surgery; well, except for oral surgery.

79. I love going to the movies. When my husband and I were first married, we sometimes went to 3 movies a week. We'll do it again once the nest is empty.

80. My favorite place to vacation with my family is Mammoth Lakes, in the summer.

81. I ride a mountain bike down from the top of the mountain once every summer. That's enough. The rest of the time I like to go around a lake. Little ups and little downs are more my speed,.

82. I am a laundry savant. I can get the stains out of anything. My family and friends call me the "Queen of Laundry." It's not ideal, but at least I'm the queen of something.

83. The song "Seasons in the Sun" by Terry Jacks still makes me cry. Yes, I know it's a pretty lame song.

84. I was the shortest person in my family as a kid and I'm the shortest person in my family today. They frequently mock me.

85. It is not unheard of for me to lose my temper.

86. I still feel badly about a very funny, but very mean, thing I said in the 8th grade. Yes, I've apologized for it.

87. I think life's too short to hold a grudge. That philosophy is why I have a relationship with my biological father.

88. My step dad walked me down the aisle. He and my mother were divorced by then.

89. I am frugal, but not cheap.

90. I've kept the same houseplant alive for over 20 years. My husband and I bought it for our first apartment.

91. My friends think I should give assertiveness-training classes.

92. I don't get sad when my kids are leaving a stage behind; I get excited about what's ahead for them.

93. I have always been happy, but I'm really happy now.

94. I am super competitive, but I can laugh at myself about it. 

95. My favorite color is cobalt blue.

96. I love organizing things.

97. Thanksgiving and Fourth of July are my favorite holidays.

98. I am an extrovert.

99. My nose is crooked from where it was broken when a scooter fell on it when I was eight. I had the chance to have it fixed when I was a teenager, but I wouldn't have been able to swim for most of the summer, so I passed. I'm glad I did.

100. I used to be a Diet Coke addict. Now I'm 95% soda and caffeine-free.

Wow, that was harder than I thought it would be. If you made it to the bottom, I appreciate your interest!